Sunday, June 12, 2011

Taken in Hand

Stumbled across this while surfing the net and immediately saw it's virtual world potential. 


An overview of Taken In Hand

A Taken In Hand relationship is a wholehearted sexually exclusive marriage in which, to the delight of both spouses, the man actively controls the woman. The degree of control and the way the husband retains control vary from Taken In Hand couple to Taken In Hand couple, but in all cases both husband and wife actively want the husband to have the upper hand. No matter how strong, tough and forceful a Taken In Hand wife may be, and no matter how hard she might try to take control in their marriage, she would be aghast if her husband were to let her get the upper hand. Likewise, no matter how loving, kind and considerate the husband may be, he prefers to keep his wife firmly in hand.



http://www.takeninhand.c...verview.of.taken.in.hand

What kind of relationship is this?

* It is wholehearted, fully committed, focused, faithfully sexually-exclusive and monogamous
* The man has the balance of power and control
* The man's control is thoroughly consensual and welcome
* The control is for the benefit of both individuals and for the relationship, as opposed to being abusive or purely self-serving
* The woman is not necessarily ‘submissive’
* It is dynamic and evolving, not a static or stereotypical relationship
* It is deeply connected and engaged and intimate
* The relationship empowers and nurtures the autonomy of both individuals, as opposed to diminishing the woman.
* It is freely chosen and wanted on an on-going basis, or it is not a Taken In Hand relationship.


How does it feel?


* Taken In Hand feels liberating
* Taken In Hand feels natural and right
* A deep feeling of peacefulness
* Amazing communication
* Problems seem easier to solve
* Improved/intense sexual connection


http://www.takeninhand.c...erview.of.taken.in.hand 



Not my cup of tea.  Natch.

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